So, lets start again…I dunno but now I m enjoying writing like this…may b dil ke kisi kone mien baitha ek write jag gaya…problem is tht I have this peculiar habit of getting excited bout anything soon and then getting out of it, bored, sooner. Just as wht happened when I tried to learn guitar few years back, then going to gym..hope blogging last longer..
Many a times, ppl dun go in for luv..they wait for it to happen on its own..I mean to say they remain closed and hope sum nice chick wud cum and then they wil open their heart but by tht time its too late.. they forget how to open heart..We shudnt miss any opportunity of luv..dun wait for mr right or ms right to show up..they dun walk written this on their heads..or u wont find mr or ms right..the more you luv the more is possibility of finding mr or ms right..(a flowering heart attracts many bees, if u knw wht I mean.)
Talking bout marriage again, (as it is hot topic nowadays, atleast for me), we get excited when its new..we like many things when they are just new to us..we are trapped in some invisible chains of protocols and decide mostly by how she luks…Bong made me reject a couple of prospective matches coz as per him, those were not suitably beautiful for me..sardarji is not going for a gud gal just becuz her height is low..bt these beauties etc will disappear after two years..once we husband wife acquainted and get used to..Law is full of rules and regulations then after marriage you cant leave ur wife..the whole society, religion is against you then..divorce also is not very easy to obtain..so you see these barriers are ther AFTER getting married, bt if we place these BEFORE getting married? Like kinda live-in be compulsory if u wanna get married…there wud be sum repercussions but divorce wud cease to exist..So, when u hv becum aware of all these problems, which I believe I have, and still decide tht its worthy to be with a person rather than alone, then its time for marriage. This time, this marriage wont kill love coz this time it wil be realistic…Marriage kills love, but only romantic love, not realistic love..Marriage wud bring out hidden love and if inside its not real love then marriage after sometime will bring out tht fakeness also..Real love, as I read somewhere, is not passion, not an emotion, but a very deep understanding that somebody, somehow completes you...
Before marriage....
He: Yes. At last. It was so hard to wait.
She: Do you want me to leave?
He: No! Don't even think about it.
She: Do you love me?
He: Of course! Over and over!
She: Have you ever cheated on me?
He: No! Why are you even asking?
She: Will you kiss me?
He: Every chance I get. She: Will you hit me?
He: Are you crazy! I'm not that kind of person!
She: Can I trust you?He: Yes.She: Darling!
After marriage....Simply read from bottom to top.
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