Music called love…
“Love is a delusion that one woman is different from other”
I have never seen more sexist and chauvinist comment on this topic like the one written above…and I disagree.
Love is most wonderful thing one can experience in life…I have myself been in love many times and every time it luks so different, so fresh, so real and so innocent…But when I luk back to my previous relationship, it never occurred to me (as it occurs to some ppl) tht previous relationship WAS NOT true love…juz time and situation has changed, the degree and depth haven’t..I can match my love-life to my friend Bong, who has had rather similar or more peculiar events in his life on this front..Fortunately now, I think, he has settled for culmination of this love..i.e. marriage..Another friend of mine, Maru, got married recently. We used to think, he is not lover kinda boy and dun know wht love is but he went on proving all of us wrong..bt fate has made him marry someone he dint know be his wife.. me and a sardarji nowadays are on searching mode in this regard..so lots of discussion are going on, of the topic marriage, its aftermath and its affect on luv..
Some ppl say that love is destroyed by marriage. Now I ponder, how can marriage destroy love? Yes, it is destroyed in marriage but it is destroyed by us, not by marriage. It is destroyed by the partners. How can marriage destroy love? It is we who destroy it because we dun know what love is.. LOVE HAS TO BE LEARNT.
Its an art which needs practice and perfection. Everybody born wid sum capacity, you have throat so you can sing, bt you need to learn singing. You have a body and you can dance bt then again you have to learn to dance..and dancing is not so difficult coz ur alone involved in it but love is much more complicated as here you have to dance with SOMEBODY ELSE..so the coordination is more difficult..so in absence of this harmony love cant be successful. So first we shud learn to love, marriage can wait…
bt then how to learn it…I m not sure whether I hv learnt it..I read sumwhere tht luv is bout giving and not expecting anything in return..wich is very uncommon in existence..we do opposite, we becum calculative. If I m giving luv so this much luv I MUST receive in return..wht a bargain..
Its midnite and I cant think of writing much now …as space seems too small for just one post..so let me change the title to Music called love part 1…and continue tmrw with fresh thots and more on luv and relationship..my fav topic.. :)
“Love is a delusion that one woman is different from other”
I have never seen more sexist and chauvinist comment on this topic like the one written above…and I disagree.
Love is most wonderful thing one can experience in life…I have myself been in love many times and every time it luks so different, so fresh, so real and so innocent…But when I luk back to my previous relationship, it never occurred to me (as it occurs to some ppl) tht previous relationship WAS NOT true love…juz time and situation has changed, the degree and depth haven’t..I can match my love-life to my friend Bong, who has had rather similar or more peculiar events in his life on this front..Fortunately now, I think, he has settled for culmination of this love..i.e. marriage..Another friend of mine, Maru, got married recently. We used to think, he is not lover kinda boy and dun know wht love is but he went on proving all of us wrong..bt fate has made him marry someone he dint know be his wife.. me and a sardarji nowadays are on searching mode in this regard..so lots of discussion are going on, of the topic marriage, its aftermath and its affect on luv..
Some ppl say that love is destroyed by marriage. Now I ponder, how can marriage destroy love? Yes, it is destroyed in marriage but it is destroyed by us, not by marriage. It is destroyed by the partners. How can marriage destroy love? It is we who destroy it because we dun know what love is.. LOVE HAS TO BE LEARNT.
Its an art which needs practice and perfection. Everybody born wid sum capacity, you have throat so you can sing, bt you need to learn singing. You have a body and you can dance bt then again you have to learn to dance..and dancing is not so difficult coz ur alone involved in it but love is much more complicated as here you have to dance with SOMEBODY ELSE..so the coordination is more difficult..so in absence of this harmony love cant be successful. So first we shud learn to love, marriage can wait…
bt then how to learn it…I m not sure whether I hv learnt it..I read sumwhere tht luv is bout giving and not expecting anything in return..wich is very uncommon in existence..we do opposite, we becum calculative. If I m giving luv so this much luv I MUST receive in return..wht a bargain..
Its midnite and I cant think of writing much now …as space seems too small for just one post..so let me change the title to Music called love part 1…and continue tmrw with fresh thots and more on luv and relationship..my fav topic.. :)
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